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No More Mr. Nice Gay

Too Old For This Shit

We’re almost there!?!?  I’m hoping that Prop 8 was the necessary catalyst to anger, energize, compel, and inspire the gay community and it’s supporters to demand equality.

When it comes to rights, I don’t understand how people can expect one to settle for anything less than equal.  Opponents of gay marriage love to spout the “you have civil unions” line as if they’re the ones whom have compromised.  Quite frankly it reminds me of the “separate but equal” premise.  The day that civil unions become a viable argument is the day that ALL couples have to accept civil unions!  (A notion that I’m fine with as it better defines the line between Church and State.)

Some argue that we’re whiners and sore losers as if rights we equivalent to a sporting event; “the majority has spoke, now sit quietly and accept it!” (in my best Bill O’Reilly voice). Well… sorry Bill, not this time, not when we’re talking about civil rights. As I see it, now is the precise time to stand-up and start yelling!  Throughout our history minorities have and are still proudly fighting for equality, this is just a progression of that effort!

That said, I’ll end my rant and leave you with a few quotes from others and photos from myself.

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iPhone: No Longer A Status Symbol Of The Social Eleite?

Over the weekend I was at an event in which 2/3 of the attendees possessed iPhones; me included.  WTF RIGHT? An iPhone is supposed to embellish its owner’s uniquely creative aesthetic and urban-chic hipness, its  supposed to project a an air of intellectualism and technological superiority, its supposed to establish it’s owners significance by positioning him/her at the epicenter of their social environment.  Clearly this is no-longer true as indicated by the revelation  that the iPhone 3G topped the cellphone sales charts this quarter, de-throning the Motorola Razr.  Why the Razr was at the top of the chart for 4 years? I have no clue, Its been at least a years since I’ve even seen one in use.

This saturation of iphones in my social circles is increasing and has me concerned about my position in said circles.  Am I still unique and urban-chic? Was I ever technologically lntellectable? How do I maintain my social significance?

What to do people?  Help!

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An Open Letter To My Fellow Americans

I don’t know about you, but I can’t wait for this election to be over. Seriously!

I began intently paying attention to American politics in the lead up to the war in Iraq. In the 5+ years since I’ve increasingly become, if not exponentially, a neurotic mess. Many of you I suspect are in the same boat. My anxiety and cynicism levels are through the roof; and I’ve been hyper-obsessed with the media coverage even to the determent of other activities and responsibilities.

The approach to this year’s election (all 2 years of it) has only exacerbated the matter, especially the last 4-5 months. I honestly think that this neurosis could possibly be a disorder worthy of DSM-IV recognition.

The root cause of this disorder is the extreme-partisanship propagated by politicians and the media. All of us have fallen prey to this to some degree. It’s Us vs. Them, Red vs. Blue, or Republicans vs. Democrats; as if everything in this world was just black or white. These labels mean nothing and their sole purpose is to divide us. Can anyone define what these terms stand for? I personally don’t think that any of us can be put into any one category.

The unfortunate result of this is that we’re beginning to propagate the partisanship ourselves, independent of the politicians and the media. Similarly we engage in…

  • Relative Justification: Minimizing or defending the wrong doings perpetrated by one individual by contrasting them to the wrong doings of another. 
  • Contextual Deception: Intentionally and falsely represent another’s views/statements without providing original/appropriate context. 
  • Indifferent Deception: Standing by idle knowingly allowing lies to be disseminated as truths. 
  • Omission: Conveniently failing to acknowledge entire news stories or pertinent details as to minimize the impact and/or significance of a story.
  • Blind Defenders/Cheerleaders: Individuals whose stubbornness and/or party loyalty surpasses their interests in improving their town/city/state/country.

Anyway I guess the point that I’m getting at is that we’ve got to stop this. We’re bitter and exhausted; if we keep this up we’re going to drive ourselves completely mad. I don’t think we have another election like this one in us; at least I know I don’t.  

I know there are issues we disagree on but there has to be a more civil approach.  When everyone is angry, yelling, and pointing fingers; nothing is being discussed. Maybe we should agree to discuss the issues. Can we agree to do that?  Can we agree that each politician needs to be held accountable for his/her own words and actions; regardless of party affiliation? Can we agree to uproot lies, end the deception, and perpetuate whole truths? Can we agree to take off the red and blue jerseys and stop all the cheerleading? I’ll agree to that. Will you? I sure hope so!

Happy Vote Day!
Diligent.me

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November 2008: Halloween and Boners

I think this halloween was a blast yall. There are quite a few holes in my memory from the night, so if you have and details that could jog my memory please do tell. I hope i didn’t kill anyone. I take halloween seriously and this year I was a ninja, and what ninjas do? Kill people! Anyway since its now November I guess its time for another mixtape! This month’s mix is such a Rager that it’ll give you a massive boner! True Story!

DiligentDance Mixtapes

 

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